Ok, makes sense. You can change your mind in one direction, but not the other. Having the no forced upon you is the only way to delete the soul token. There's a third option in there, acceptance I guess? Just keep going, no guarantee of reward, but a slight risk of ejection, based on how you present yourself to the collective that said yes.
I guess if I'm being honest, that's the path I'm currently on. How narrow is this road, the engineer in me asks. Let's find out! 🙆♀️
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